In my story, Caregivingly Yours, my wife was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis almost a quarter century
ago. She awoke Thanksgiving morning 1989 unable to walk, and barely able to see
or talk.
“Across
the years of caregiving, I’d guestimate I’ve pushed Patti’s wheelchairs at
least 5,000 miles (8,000 kilometers). …
…As sweat stains your shirt you only need ask
yourself - how many people do you know who will step in to push the person you
care for up the hills and across the years?”
Any week I can mark 3
Multiple Sclerosis friendly outings with Patti from her care facility and 3
trips to Baltimore regarding my lung cancer on my kitchen wall calendar is a damn
fine week of juggling spousal caregiving and my own health.
The
above collage of pics were taken 24 hrs after my Endobronchial Ultrasound
(EBUS) Biopsy on a sunny 75°F (23.8°C) two mile push and roll with Patti around
Carlisle, PA ending at Helena's Chocolate Café & Crêperie for dinner.
Learning
earlier today that EBUS pathology report would not be available to talk about today I found
myself reflecting that lung cancer may connect us as bloggers and likely define the commonality of our endings but it does not
define the stories of our lives.
Patrick Leer
Health Activist:
Caregivingly Yours, MS Caregiver @ http://caregivinglyyours.blogspot.com/
My Lung Cancer Odyssey @ http://lung-cancer-survivor.blogspot.com/
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