‘Take
every day as a gift’ I read or hear from many but personally I find myself
wondering can I afford the gift tax on surviving lung cancer?
Yes! I am
grateful to be alive but I am also left dancing one step ahead of my economic
grave every day, and I have health insurance. Months of lost work from recovery from lung cancer surgery
plus appointments and tests (both 'outpatient' procedure biopsies resulted in me being
hospitalized) does not equal income. I am still trying to juggle paying the deductibles from my
medical bills. If anything I could teach President Obama new techniques for
deficit spending.
“Families
may be one accident, injury, or diagnosis away from bankruptcy," U.S.
Senator Sheldon Whitehouse (D-RI). Our family is facing its second – my wife
has lived with a quarter century of severe Multiple Sclerosis and now my Lung
Cancer.
Double
income, working spouses and/or lack thereof along with other family economic
factors unquestionably affect the ability to take every day as a gift.
The more
I read of lung cancer survivors I was feeling more and more isolated from
people who were able to focus on fighting for their lives rather than swamped trying
to pay their bills until I discovered lung cancer survivor Gary Kane writing in Google+ and/or his blog bandtogetherforgary
“...From cousins and family friends who have donated thousands of their hard earned dollars to help us pay our bills while at the same time paying their own during these difficult times, to an old college roommate who I haven't seen for years donating his hard earned money, to my in-laws, (all of them) donating money, food, time, and support...”
Writing
from Massachusetts, home of the much ballyhooed near-universal health insurance
coverage his words are perhaps even apocalyptic of what a lung cancer diagnosis
can mean.
Beginning
this odyssey I am learning quickly that surviving lung cancer seems to be about
surviving a whole lot more than the diagnosis.
As a
spouse caregiver I’ve tried to live my life with a stoic indifference to my own
existence. I’m finding during sleepless nights that adding my lung cancer
odyssey to the mix of things to somehow juggle seems increasingly quixotic.
by Patrick Leer
BLOGS:
Caregivingly Yours, MS Caregiver @ http://caregivinglyyours.blogspot.com/
My Lung Cancer Odyssey @ http://lung-cancer-survivor.blogspot.com/
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